I have managed to do this now in a quickform built form
I found a forum post elsewhere on the site, and using the details from that
I have set the 'Value' of a hidden item, to the following
hxxp://www.domain.com/index.php?page=shop.product_details&flypage=flypage_images.tpl&product_id=<?php return ff_getParam("product_id");?>&category_id=<?php return ff_getParam("category_id");?>&option=com_virtuemart&Itemid=68
and this now deliveres the link in the subitted email, that links back to the page that the form was submitted
probably not the best solution to the problem, but it works ok for now
Steven